She grew up with high standards for her partner due to family reasons. Initially, she dismissed and looked down on him, a playboy from a wealthy family, considering only "successful men." However, as her family's situation changed, she stepped forward and took on responsibilities, eventually willing to marry him. Her pride and high expectations led her to initially overlook his positive qualities. As she got to know him better, she began to appreciate his virtues, gradually changing her opinion of him.